{"id":5085,"date":"2023-11-26T20:26:01","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T20:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nicewaistcoat.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=5085"},"modified":"2023-11-27T22:42:57","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T22:42:57","slug":"an-open-letter-to-kevin","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/nicewaistcoat.com\/wordpress\/a-poems\/an-open-letter-to-kevin\/","title":{"rendered":"An Open Letter to Kevin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> An Open Letter to Kevin<br \/>\nby cricketjeff on June 4, 2011.\u00a0 \u00a9 Jeff Green, All rights reserved<br \/>\nWe here are a community, a community that only exists because of the site that<br \/>\nyou built, it is your child. But like your child it has grown, partly through<br \/>\nyour efforts but also through the efforts of others and also because<br \/>\ncommunities either grow or die.<br \/>\nI too have children, some of them large and metaphorical, websites like and<br \/>\nunlike this one and others, four others, of the flesh and blood variety. For<br \/>\nboth sorts of children I am further down the road than you, the oldest of my<br \/>\ninternet children is older than the web the youngest of my real children is<br \/>\ntwenty one. I still love them all, see them all regularly and I hope have some<br \/>\ninfluence in their lives, but I do not, I never have, own any of them. When you<br \/>\ngive life to something you have done just that, you have given it life, a free<br \/>\ngift, a wonderful gift but a gift not a loan. Your children owe you nothing, my<br \/>\nchildren owe me nothing. What they grow into will be partly my doing, but<br \/>\nmostly it will be theirs and I must respect that.<br \/>\nWith this upgrade I think you have forgotten that. Your beta testing was<br \/>\npatchy, rushed and incomplete. The beta site was never &#8220;in use&#8221; just a mock up<br \/>\nfor us to admire and comment on. Now you have converted it into a live site<br \/>\nimpacting deeply on the lives and emotions of dozens of others. Many of them<br \/>\nhaving no interest at all in the technicalities and minutiae of the web, or of<br \/>\ncomputers. For many the only reason they use the Internet is to read and to<br \/>\nwrite poetry, for many those actions have become an integral and necessary part<br \/>\nof their days. We see and talk to our friends here, and our enemies! This new<br \/>\nsite has interrupted that, and as such it has hurt people.<br \/>\nNow you ask for patience and for those who cannot live with it to take a day<br \/>\noff and come back. Maybe you are asking the wrong people for patience. Perhaps<br \/>\nyou should have shown the patience before embarking on major, possibly life<br \/>\nthreatening surgery on your child, a child that is no longer a toddler<br \/>\nincapable of looking to its own future, but a vibrant strong adolescent with<br \/>\nviews of its own.<br \/>\nMany things we had been given have been taken away, hidden or changed. You ask<br \/>\nus to trust that it will be better, but better is not a simple linear concept,<br \/>\nbetter for some almost always means worse for others. I love my time here at AP<br \/>\nand I am very grateful to you for creating the site, but gratitude is not a<br \/>\ndebt, I pay for my time here, and for several other people&#8217;s time and I like to<br \/>\nget what I pay for.<br \/>\nPlease think carefully, then think again, before you do things that cannot be<br \/>\nundone.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nSincerely<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nJeff<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An Open Letter to Kevin by cricketjeff on June 4, 2011.\u00a0 \u00a9 Jeff Green, All rights reserved We here are a community, a community that only exists because of the site that you built, it is your child. 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